5 Tips To Get Away From The "friend Zone"

For those of you who have lived under a rock (or Russia) during the last 10 years: Definition: Friend Zone is a popular psychology concept found in the texts of many pseudo-psychology (huh?). Friendship dimension refers to the situation where the only person in the friendship began to consider the other as a friend and not as a romantic partner, a psychological classification called exceptionally difficult to undo.

I must point out a colleague, we will call Justin (because it is his real name) is now a successful monogamous relationship with a girl who had friends in the past 2 years. When asked how it could happen, he replied: "It 's so much beer While this is great advice I've listed some of the other approaches are pushing their way into your heart or read your friend or you're going ...
1.Be supportive:

if you are good friends you've probably often speak and spend time with friends or going out. Now, you can suggest a few solo sessions hang. Suggest something where you can be alone and in a comfortable situation, this step will not tolerate putting moves on them immediately. This is just to make a statement! Being alone, together, bring new types of conversations and binding experiments. Do not offer a "movie night" as your first solo sesh because everyone knows the "watch a movie" is code for "come and do with my face"
2.       Get comfortable:

if you are good friends you've probably often speak and spend time with friends or going out. Now, you can suggest a few solo sessions hang. Suggest something where you can be alone and in a comfortable situation, this step will not tolerate putting moves on them immediately. This is just to make a statement! Being alone, together, bring new types of conversations and binding experiments. Do not offer a "movie night" as your first solo sesh because everyone knows the "watch a movie" is code for "come and do with my face"

3. Beer:

this may not have been originally on my list, but because it is an achievement for a man, I know in the flesh, I suggest you get drunk together. Do not, I repeat Do not get too drunk, you do not want to end up doing something stupid like try to kiss or have a one night stand. Especially if he's a friend and want to get near her, having a one night stand can make him feel as if you were using her and can damage your friendship, so a clear change of something more . The proposal of the beer is simply a way to see if there's a flirtation.

4. Ask them their opinion:

is not a proposal for a 19 or what the holidays. Ask what they think of you partner. The word which in a way that means you're curious, I do not want to know what sex is the thought of you. This is a great way to see how they see you as a boy / girl. If you ask "why do you think I have not met a person," and the answer is a fun and playful, you will probably only be seen as a friend. If its more than "you look in the wrong places", "let these girls walk out on you, do not deserve, it is likely that they might be interested, I'm just not fully aware. When someone is a friend for a long time, all the attraction and compatibility can not be there but it just has not been addressed.

5. Express:

Now this is very important, you want to know what you mean. Let your feelings be known and may make you vulnerable as there is a possibility that you are truly a valuable friend and do not destroy. You have to respect that and move on. However, if you have the steps, research and engineering measures, I provided so you have an idea (the word favorite, for your information) that your answer can be. approach in a way that lets them know how you feel and want the opportunity to see where it goes, but friendship is all they see then you'll be fine with that. Do not give ultimatums or demands, unless you're okay with the confession is the end of their friendship.