If You Marry Your First Love?

You know the scenario: The star quarterback of the football team falls to the winning touchdown pass in the big game, and in his view, the blemishes of the cute cheerleader jumping up and down with pom poms raised skyward. Love at first sight?

When the prom and college dating, quarterback, of course, to propose and adopt a cheerleader. Sure, it reads like a fantasy. Basically it is what it is - a description of the idealized marriage, first love.

But guess what? It may be possible to have everything in first person you fall for. Do not buy dogs and cats live in the suburbs or lay a large brood, but maybe you can run it with the right person.

Is the grass greener?

I want someone to consider the school's first marriage to Valentine's Day when you're looking at what else is out there. Not much, I regret to inform you. Look, you can meet many wonderful people who encourage you, but it's worth dumping you love now?

Think about it: if you're evil or bad relationship with space for personal growth, not a good suggestion. Forget the worries of monogamy. If sex is a good time (or if the preliminary sober) and both are open, willing to try and thank each other sex with someone who will leave empty.

What if you, well, sorry?

I know, I know, curiosity kills you. Just enough time to think for a minute - with your brain. The best sex is with someone with whom you share a deep bond, where the comfort level is high and in good standing. I guess all that the love of your life.

So why consider shelving plans marriage or long-term commitment, because you want to be with more than one wife before he died? The key is that true love is priceless. Do not let it slip away.

What we will miss you

The final grade for the doubting Thomas in you. Think about the future with her boyfriend and first love. Marriage, family, a house - and all that - or what you are looking for a partner.

Now imagine that you cave in your desire to experience more and leave your first love. What would life be then? Yes, after braving the difficult transition period of being alone, you can find solace in the arms of another person.

You might have more fans than the movie star. Fine. What then? It takes a strong person of that love for life. If this is your first love is the real deal, do not let the temptation of more-is-more dematerialized system. This could be true love you'll ever find.