Most often today, there are variations on this theme of love and marriage. The romantic part of the scenario has not changed. Boy and girl never meet, date and fall in love. But young people have a choice today that their parents usually do not. For one thing, when the time comes, they can move into an apartment with a partner without being married. Although many parents still disapprove of such behavior, there are others who do not take cognizance of an unmarried couple living in what is called sin.
Another possibility is that a man can not stay home and do chores while his wife works for fun, not just part-time department store to make a few bucks for Christmas or to help the budget, but the gap is only so much of his law practice, because it is her husband. It may not have children, never, no figure. More and more couples are postponing a family until they feel the time is right. Some are even of their minds, that children do not fall into their plans at all. Finally, for those who can not live happily ever after, or that the divorce without marriage. Divorce has long been a possibility, of course, but is more prevalent and acceptable today. More than half of all teenage marriages are in fact ended in divorce.
Although relatively few of you to get married right away, you probably have discussed the possibility, though he promised he would never do such a thing. Most adolescents will marry one day, however, and most have a traditional marriage called - with the minister or a rabbi or a priest, the best man and bridesmaid, wedding cake and veil and and wine reception and honeymoon. It is important to look more closely at this serious relationship is the cornerstone of the family, the social institution that unites a man and a woman to the exclusion of others, and some options for marriage today.
Marriages are not always a natural consequence of falling in love. People get married for other reasons, even if the United States, where the romance usually precedes a wedding. The family could arrange a marriage for work or for economic reasons, the king could marry the queen of another country, a political subject, and increase his power, a young woman in a foreign country can take an American man to avoid deportation .
An old Czech expression leaves no doubt about the weakness of the role of Cupid sometimes play ". Choose your wife is not a dance but in a harvest field" Some people because of their own taboos and their culture participate in relationships before marriage, getting married so they can be free to enjoy sex. Others who believe in "doing right" to marry because the woman in the relationship became pregnant, the marriage in a case like this is a way to avoid social disgrace.
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